God send soulmate?

Q: How would you know when God sends you your life partner? How would you know that this is him, that this is the man for me? A: This may sound as if I don’t believe in the power of God, but I am not of the opinion that God always sends every person the mate...

adultery intervention

Q:  My husband had an affair. I just read your article on How to do an Intervention. The section on self-delusion helped me so much. While the affair was going on (but still unknown by me) I wrote in my journal daily about things like rationalizing, blaming,...

another weekend of miracles

All day Friday, Saturday, and Sunday Alice and I, along with Charles Hayden and Jon Hazelip, will be in workshop with several married couples. Most face major issues in their relationship. Most are in crisis. We often hear from participants that we are the “last...

obama

Last summer Alice cashed in about-to-expire airline miles for a plethora of magazine subscriptions. We thought she only signed up for about twenty, but based on the looks the postman has been throwing our way, I think the actual number may be somewhere closer to...