by joebeam | May 5, 2015 | Communication, Marriage Trouble, Uncategorized
QUESTION: My husband didn’t blink an eye when I told him to move into the spare room. But he didn’t move before vividly describing more things about me that anger him. I wish he would have brought this to my attention years ago (literally). I don’t...
by joebeam | May 5, 2015 | Communication, How To's, Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Relationship, Uncategorized
QUESTION: I’m confused. My husband and I are separated. He keeps telling me that he wants to have normal conversations. He talks about nothing. He doesn’t want a heart to heart conversation so we can solve our problems. I just want to know am I wasting my...
by joebeam | Apr 30, 2015 | Marriage Trouble, Relationship, Sex, Uncategorized
In my work with marriages in crisis since 1994, 67% of those marriages have been affected by infidelity. Some on the part of the husband, some the wife, some both. If the affair was short-lived – primarily about sex – the crisis is real but not as...
by joebeam | Apr 15, 2015 | Marriage Trouble, Uncategorized
QUESTION: My husband is in love with another woman. I believe that what he is feeling for the other woman is what you call limerence. Since he has moved out, he has asked me to bring him medicine when sick, and he got me a shirt the day he had me served with divorce...
by joebeam | Apr 9, 2015 | Marriage Trouble, Relationship, Uncategorized
QUESTION: How do I let him know he’s my everything when I now know I’m his nothing? After years together how can I mean nothing to him? ANSWER: I am so sorry for your pain. Before I answer your question, I strongly recommend you read the articles on...
by joebeam | Dec 11, 2013 | Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Relationship, Sin? Wrong? Or not?, Uncategorized
QUESTION: Joe, my husband works with several women, and occasionally they will have lunch meetings (usually as a group). I was okay with this until a friend told me recently that she saw my husband and one of his co-workers at lunch (in a very trendy lunch spot) and...
