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Husband punishes me when I say no

QUESTION: I've been married for 19 years. My husband and I have sex usually 5 times a week. He is very persistent about it happening more often. If I say no he gives me a HUGE guilt trip and will not talk to me for 2 days. I am so angry that he does this to me and...

Does Bible Say I Have to Stay In Sexless Marriage?

God, Marriage Trouble, Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?

QUESTION: Where does it say in scripture that I am required to stay in a marriage WITHOUT sex. If my spouse is not physically disabled, not grossly obese, not cheating on me but just NOT interested in having sex and REFUSES to go to counselling unless I agree to...

Husband shares our sex life with his sister

Marriage, Sex

QUESTION: My husband shares our sex life with his sister, who then shares it with other family members. His sister has made crass jokes about our sex life. This disturbs me immensely. I don't feel as if he should be sharing our sex life with anyone but me. Am I...

Husband’s Lover Does Things I Won’t Do

Anatomy, Marriage Trouble, Oral, Anal, Etc., Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?, Toys, vibrators, etc., Uncategorized

QUESTION: I have heard that oral and anal sex is prohibited for a Christian couple. My husband has a lover and I think she gives him both these types of sex, which I refuse to give him. He was Christian, but has left God. I still serve God. Please tell me if it...

Pat Robertson, Alzheimer’s, and Divorce

God, Grief, Life, Marriage, Physical problems, Sin? Wrong? Or not?, Uncategorized

USA Today reports that Pat says divorce is okay if one's spouse has Alzheimer's. When asked about vows such as "until death do us part" he opined that Alzheimer's is "a kind of death." He went on to say that the departing spouse should arrange proper care for the...

Spouse Suffering Emotional and Spiritual Abuse

Marriage Trouble, Relationship

QUESTION: You published an article entitled When Should a Married Couple Separate. In it you stated, "Some spouses (men and women) suffer from repeated emotional beatings or live in a marriage that causes them serious spiritual vulnerability. They need to flee for...

Adult Children Sue Mom

Life, Money, Parenting, Relationship

It's about time someone sued their Mom because she didn't put cash in a birthday card...WHAT?! You can read the news article here to get all the gory details. The gist is that two privileged children in their 20's sued their Mom for bad parenting for reasons such as:...