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adultery intervention

Q: My husband had an affair. I just read your article on How to do an Intervention. The section on self-delusion helped me so much. While the affair was going on (but still unknown by me) I wrote in my journal daily about things like rationalizing, blaming,...

Does sex lead to love?

Relationship

Q: When having sex with someone, what makes you fall in love with them? Is it possible to have sex without feelings? A: If you think that a person will fall in love with you because s/he had sex with you, or if you think that because that person is having sex with...

Joe’s back!

Uncategorized

Wow, for over two months I have not blogged. Life has been intense. However, I'm back. Not only will you find at least three new blogs per week on this site, you will also find at least three new blogs per week in which I answer questions about sex here. Sorry for...

E.D. in men as they age

Anatomy, Desire, Orgasm

Q: I am a 62 year old and recently married. What a surprise when I learned that over 60% of men over 60 have ED problems. Not having had sex in over 10 years, I was SHOCKED. Is this true for over 60% of all males or was my doctor pulling my chain? A: Erectile...

woman trades two kids for exotic bird

Life, Parenting

Kevin McGill reported for the story for the Associated Press. Here are the highlights. "NEW ORLEANS (AP) -- A Louisiana woman is accused of trading two young children in her care for a pet cockatoo and $175 cash from a couple who had been trying for years to have...

March 3 in history

Life

Don't you love those sites where you can see what happened on a certain date in history? Just this morning I read the NY Times page online that gives various events from this day, March 3. Couple of airline crashes; one in 1974 and one in 1991. I remember the 1991...

free to ministers, pastors, and lay leaders

God, Marriage Trouble, Uncategorized

Often a pastor, minister, elder, deacon, or the like asks what to do to help a marriage that they just discovered is in crisis. Usually they lament their frustration to find out only when the marriage is in such trouble. Then they confess that though they did the best...