by joebeam | May 24, 2011 | God, Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Orgasm, Overcoming the Past, Relationship, Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?
Question received through the Internet: 20 years into our marriage, I “came out” to my wife and told her of my homosexual past. She said she would stay with me as long as I remain faithful to her (I have been & intend to). We love each other, but now...
by joebeam | Mar 17, 2011 | God, How To's, Life, Marriage Trouble, Overcoming the Past, Sex, Uncategorized
Before we examine reconciliation, let’s talk about something called “decision based forgiveness.” Baskin and Enright wrote about it in a scholarly article published in 2004 in the Journal of Counseling and Development. If a person waits until he or...
by joebeam | Feb 22, 2011 | Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Relationship, Sex, Uncategorized
Only two responses to my blog about wives using sexually explicit material? Hmm. Expected more. Maybe the subject is too embarrassing or people don’t want to be associated with any discussion of it. Maybe. Maybe something else altogether. Based on the couples we...
by joebeam | Feb 17, 2011 | Desire, Marriage, Sex
My online poll asked this question: Who in your home watches or uses sexually explicit material (porn, erotica, etc.) The responses were: Husband – 24% Wife – 7% Both Husband and Wife – 11% Neither – 51% Who Knows? – 7% More than 40...
by joebeam | Jan 20, 2011 | Poll, Sex
Who in your house, if anyone, uses sexually explicit material?
by joebeam | Dec 1, 2010 | Orgasm, Sex
How many of you would sacrifice your sight for good sex? Apparently this man is willing. Granted, it’s only for a couple of minutes but the question still stands, what’s it worth to you to have good sex? What would you give up to have better sex and more...
