by joebeam | Nov 16, 2012 | Marriage Trouble
It may be physical, emotional, mental, or spiritual. Whatever the type of abuse, it eventually destroys the abused and, ultimately, the abuser. The problem came to national attention again. ESPN reported, “U.S. women’s soccer goalkeeper Hope Solo and former NFL...
by joebeam | Jul 17, 2012 | Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Overcoming the Past, Relationship, Sex
Question: My husband and I aren’t doing too well. A year ago, he had an affair on more than one occasion with my best girlfriend at the time. He says it never went beyond kissing so I tried so hard to push my feelings down to make it possible to forgive and...
by joebeam | Oct 23, 2011 | God, Marriage Trouble, Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?
QUESTION: Where does it say in scripture that I am required to stay in a marriage WITHOUT sex. If my spouse is not physically disabled, not grossly obese, not cheating on me but just NOT interested in having sex and REFUSES to go to counselling unless I agree to...
by joebeam | Sep 21, 2011 | Anatomy, Marriage Trouble, Oral, Anal, Etc., Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?, Toys, vibrators, etc., Uncategorized
QUESTION: I have heard that oral and anal sex is prohibited for a Christian couple. My husband has a lover and I think she gives him both these types of sex, which I refuse to give him. He was Christian, but has left God. I still serve God. Please tell me if it...
by joebeam | Sep 8, 2011 | Marriage Trouble, Relationship
QUESTION: You published an article entitled When Should a Married Couple Separate. In it you stated, “Some spouses (men and women) suffer from repeated emotional beatings or live in a marriage that causes them serious spiritual vulnerability. They need to flee...
by joebeam | Aug 12, 2011 | Marriage Trouble, Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?, Uncategorized
QUESTION: Joe, I am going through a divorce. My wife is Christian. She left me due to her feeling that I am controlling. We have been married 16 years. I feel like the kids and I walk on eggshells to keep her happy, and that life is all about her. We had been working...
