by joebeam | Aug 24, 2011 | Communication, How To's
A dear friend who is quite literally the most gifted writer I know suggested I read a certain novel to expand my own writing ability. I sent him the following a couple days ago… After slogging through 64 pages, hacking at extraneous vines of flowing words in...
by joebeam | Jul 14, 2011 | Anatomy, How To's, Life, Orgasm, Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?
QUESTION: I have a question about something that has been troubling me: I’ve been teaching my teenage son through books like Every Man’s Battle and Every Woman’s Battle that boys and men should generally avoid masturbation as it could cause impure fantasies and that...
by joebeam | Jul 7, 2011 | God, Grief, How To's, Life, Overcoming the Past, Uncategorized
The following article is powerful and deeply touching. It was written by my friend David Matthews. He does a workshop for people working through grief. It could be the grief of losing a loved one to death. It might be the grief of losing a loved one to another person....
by joebeam | Jun 21, 2011 | How To's, Marriage, Relationship, Sex, Uncategorized
Q: “Hello I was wondering is it OK for me to talk about sex with my fiance before we are married? I have heard it said this is important so that we know what our expectations are, is this right? How far is it OK for us to go in our conversation as a Christian...
by joebeam | Jun 15, 2011 | How To's, Marriage, Sex, Uncategorized
Q: “Hello, I am a 27 year old Christian male. I am engaged to be married soon, my fiancé is 17 yrs older than me. I want to make it special for her on our wedding night but I’ve got no idea what to do. She is older and more experienced than me. I am...
by joebeam | May 24, 2011 | Communication, How To's, Life, Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Overcoming the Past, Relationship
Pardon the delay between Steps 3.3 and 3.4. Back on track now… We shared four of the steps for reconciliation in previous blogs. We conclude now with steps 4, 5, and 6. If you put all the blogs together, you have one of the most effective ways to reconcile...