by joebeam | Sep 25, 2013 | How To's, Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Relationship
QUESTION: My husband is not happy with the way I dress or look. He wants me to be thin and dress much younger than my age. He’s always comparing me to the wives of our friends and telling me how pretty or sexy they are and that I should be more like them. I admit that...
by joebeam | Feb 25, 2013 | How To's, Orgasm, Sex, Uncategorized
QUESTION: My husband ejaculates in a minute or two after we start making love. Even if it is every day or every other day. For 14 years. I said try for at least 5 minutes; he said he would like at least 10. I can understand if we were newlyweds or if it had been long...
by joebeam | Feb 25, 2013 | Communication, How To's, Life, Marriage, Relationship, Uncategorized
QUESTION: If your spouse does not give you what you need, is it better (or more damaging) to expect your spouse to live up to your need or to lower your standard? For example – my husband and I were having an issue. As we tried to figure out why I react the way...
by joebeam | Jan 18, 2013 | Anatomy, How To's, Marriage, Orgasm, Sex
QUESTON: I am a 22-year-old who feels that she knows less about sex than other people my age. A couple months ago I got married and am learning about sex as we go along. One thing I wonder about is if there is a way that I could reach orgasm during intercourse. I have...
by joebeam | Feb 14, 2012 | How To's, Life, Marriage, Relationship, Uncategorized
Remembering Valentine’s Day, by Steve Brumfield Okay, guys, stay with me here. I understand and am well aware that nobody wants advice, but would like to offer up some thoughts about my favorite holiday … Valentines Day. I know, this is dangerous territory...
by joebeam | Aug 25, 2011 | Communication, How To's, Life, Relationship
Robert Smith commented on Why Can You Hear What I Feel? He writes… I understand your point — that we should validate another person’s feelings and show empathy — but there are some people who have a very distorted, self-centered view of the world. Their feelings...
