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A Thanksgiving Day to Remember

(Note: No animals were harmed in the story that follows. I cannot say the same for the humans.) After stuffing ourselves with turkey, ham, and momma's famous chocolate cake on Thanksgiving Day 2008, my brother Greg, our nephew Matthew, and I sauntered out to Greg's...

Husband Not Interested In Making Love

Arousal, Desire, Marriage, Sex

QUESTION: Everyone always says the husband has more sexual desire than the wife, so you can imagine that you feel a little disillusioned when it's the other way around. It's always been this way, to a certain extent, but has been exaggerated with having a toddler,...

May a Christian masturbate? May a Christian use porn? Questions from a divorcee…

Desire, God, Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?, Uncategorized

QUESTION: I am a divorcee and I miss having sex very much. When I feel the urge (sexual desire), I watch porn and masturbate. No, I am not a sex addict and I am not a porn addict. This may happen once or twice a month and even sometimes a couple of months go by and...

If a husband or wife refuses the other’s sexual preferences…

God, Marriage, Oral, Anal, Etc., Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?

QUESTION: (from the UK) Please, God requires Holiness for Man. I thought of our environment on how many homes are breaking down because of sex and sex satisfaction. (1) Do Christian have restrictions to sex position? What may a husband and wife do in their inner room...

Is it good to marry more than one wife?

Life, Marriage

The title gives the question that someone sent. I do not know if the one asking is male or female. However, my answer is short. First, if you mean having more than one wife at a time, evaluate whether that is worth going to prison. Polygamy is illegal in each of the...

Should I give my straying husband yet another chance?

Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Overcoming the Past, Relationship, Sex

Question: My husband and I aren't doing too well. A year ago, he had an affair on more than one occasion with my best girlfriend at the time. He says it never went beyond kissing so I tried so hard to push my feelings down to make it possible to forgive and forget. I...

A Special Valentine’s Day Message

How To's, Life, Marriage, Relationship, Uncategorized

Remembering Valentine's Day, by Steve Brumfield Okay, guys, stay with me here. I understand and am well aware that nobody wants advice, but would like to offer up some thoughts about my favorite holiday ... Valentines Day. I know, this is dangerous territory for guys,...