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sex during menstrual period – actually healthy??

Q: I am newly married and my husband and I both waited until marriage to have sex. We are slowly getting use to each other’s likes and dislikes and enjoying getting to discover new things with one another. But recently my husband got upset because I do not feel like...

i never know when my husband is going to get mad

Marriage, Marriage Trouble

Q: It seems like every day I am living my life on the edge, never knowing when my husband is going to get mad about something. It seems like I can't make him happy no matter what I do and when he talks down to me it makes me feel like crap. Especially when he gets...

marriage suffering from husband’s porn addiction

Relationship, Sin? Wrong? Or not?

Q: My husband is addicted to porn and our marriage has been suffering for the last 4 years. We tried counseling about a year and a half ago and just a few months ago he tried going to a coach. He thinks we need to work on our marriage. I don't believe it will do any...

wife wants divorce to be with another

Marriage Trouble

Q: Read your blog "husband angry, unable to forgive." Joe, this is my situation almost exactly; except my wife says she doesn’t love me and wants a divorce. I haven’t been the right kind of husband for years, but I thought I was, so I wouldn’t budge, and she detached...

intervening anger addiction

Life, Marriage Trouble

Q: I went through several of your past posts that led me to your article on Intervention. I started thinking about the interactions with my wife. Every few days, we have a question and answer session about something that is nothing, but made to be an affair or deceit...

71 yr old man wants sex from 67 yr old girlfriend

Relationship, Sin? Wrong? Or not?

Q: I am a 67 old woman--widowed--I have been dating a 71 year old widower for 2 years---I believe it is wrong to live in a sexual relationship before marriage--no matter what age you are or what your circumstances are--He on the other hand thinks it is okay because we...

husband angry, unable to forgive

Life, Marriage Trouble, Uncategorized

Q: My marriage has been in crisis for a couple of years now. I made a terrible terrible mistake a couple of years ago. My husband and myself tried to work things out. I thought he had forgiven me then but he did not. I took him for granted and felt that everything...