God send soulmate?

Q: How would you know when God sends you your life partner? How would you know that this is him, that this is the man for me? A: This may sound as if I don’t believe in the power of God, but I am not of the opinion that God always sends every person the mate...

adultery intervention

Q:  My husband had an affair. I just read your article on How to do an Intervention. The section on self-delusion helped me so much. While the affair was going on (but still unknown by me) I wrote in my journal daily about things like rationalizing, blaming,...

Does sex lead to love?

Q: When having sex with someone, what makes you fall in love with them? Is it possible to have sex without feelings? A: If you think that a person will fall in love with you because s/he had sex with you, or if you think that because that person is having sex with...