by joebeam | Feb 13, 2013 | Uncategorized
Every year I reprint this message from my friend Steve Brumfield. He wrote it after the death of his beloved wife Sue. *** I understand and am well aware that most of us do not want unsolicited advice, but would like to offer up some thoughts about my favorite...
by joebeam | Nov 27, 2012 | Marriage Trouble, Relationship, Uncategorized
QUESTION: My 40-year-old wife seems to think she is going through menopause. For this reason she is just not interested in sex at all. Her memory seems to be short, too, because when I tell her that she has a problem and needs to talk, she is all willing to, but then...
by joebeam | Nov 19, 2012 | God, Marriage, Oral, Anal, Etc., Sex, Uncategorized
QUESTION: I hope this message is not out of line. With your educational background and Christian beliefs, you seem to be the perfect person to ask about sex relations in marriage. My question is this; in marriage is sex restricted to intercourse? Is oral sex a...
by joebeam | Nov 13, 2012 | Life, Uncategorized
(Note: No animals were harmed in the story that follows. I cannot say the same for the humans.) After stuffing ourselves with turkey, ham, and momma’s famous chocolate cake on Thanksgiving Day 2008, my brother Greg, our nephew Matthew, and I sauntered out to...
by joebeam | Oct 8, 2012 | Desire, God, Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?, Uncategorized
QUESTION: I am a divorcee and I miss having sex very much. When I feel the urge (sexual desire), I watch porn and masturbate. No, I am not a sex addict and I am not a porn addict. This may happen once or twice a month and even sometimes a couple of months go by and...
by joebeam | Feb 14, 2012 | How To's, Life, Marriage, Relationship, Uncategorized
Remembering Valentine’s Day, by Steve Brumfield Okay, guys, stay with me here. I understand and am well aware that nobody wants advice, but would like to offer up some thoughts about my favorite holiday … Valentines Day. I know, this is dangerous territory...