sex in later life

My friend Dr. Barry McCarthy is not only a brilliant expert in matters of sexuality, he also is really nice guy. He knows that I am a Christian and always treats my beliefs and values with great respect, though they are somewhat more restrictive than his. It’s...

should we separate?

Because I am in the marriage business, often I get calls from ministers around the country who want a professional consultation (but apparently cannot afford a professional, so they call me). One call was from the Senior Minister and Associate Minister who sat...

she’s not your child

It only took a few minutes of watching them react before I interrupted with a question, “Why do you treat her as if she’s a child?” He reacted with surprise. She reacted with relief. And appreciation. For years she had tried to tell him that his...

the largest sex organ

I’ll never forget the time in North Carolina when I told an audience, “Your largest sex organ is between your ears.” Some guy in the back did a perfect Scooby imitation with that drawn out “huuuuuh?” Without a doubt it’s true...

throw me some questions

If you think you may wish to read this blog regularly, I have a favor to ask. I ask you to ask me. You see, I’m on hiatus from call-in radio and it’s driving me crazy not to have people calling in to ask questions or make comments. The show, Give &...