Another question about sex

Warning: In this blog I use very frank terms to answer a question about a particular sexual act. If that may offend you, please do not proceed. The question came not as a question but as just two words. Anal sex. When this question comes during one of my Love, Sex...

weight and marriage

Soon I’ll share some fascinating things I’ve uncovered in research about marital and sexual satisfaction. It’s not quite ready to go yet — and I may ask you to participate in a survey if you wish! — but for now let me mention one clear...

question about porn

Question sent to Joe: “You answered a question for a woman on the Woody & Jim show on December 9th concerning the porn that her boyfriend was viewing on the Internet.  I listened and it is exactly what I am going through with my husband of 20 years.  Can you...

joe a sex expert?

Sex expert. That’s how Leighann McCoy referred to me on her blog (I love to read Leighann’s thoughts. Check her out at http://sisterpastor.blogspot.com). I guess others see me the same way. That’s why national TV and radio programs invite me on the...

response to wendy — limerence

Just received this message: First let me say that, my husband and I have so much respect for you and appreciate all of the work you do…here is where we need your wisdom and advice. Our [newly Christian friend] is currently involved in a relationship (of less...

sex and spirituality

I was thirtyish. He was about fifteen years my senior. When he told me, I thought it was one of the hokiest things I had ever heard, but I smiled, nodded somberly, and thanked him for his wisdom. He was trying to tell me that making love to one’s wife...