by joebeam | May 27, 2011 | Arousal, Desire, Oral, Anal, Etc., Orgasm, Physical problems, Sex, Sin? Wrong? Or not?, Toys, vibrators, etc.
Question: My husband is a recovering porn addict that has been able to stay away from the porn for about 2 years now. For the last several years he has struggled with Peyronie’s disease (even going through a series of shot treatments) and erectile dysfunction. ...
by joebeam | May 25, 2011 | Desire, Orgasm, Sex
Question: My wife of 35 years is always too tired or to sick to have sex with me, but I found out that she is masturbating every night, giving herself many orgasms every night, and has been doing so for years. I always make sure she has an orgasm every time we have...
by joebeam | Feb 17, 2011 | Desire, Marriage, Sex
My online poll asked this question: Who in your home watches or uses sexually explicit material (porn, erotica, etc.) The responses were: Husband – 24% Wife – 7% Both Husband and Wife – 11% Neither – 51% Who Knows? – 7% More than 40...
by joebeam | Oct 1, 2009 | Arousal, Desire, Orgasm, Relationship
Q: I was at a birthday celebration dinner for a friend recently with a small group of married women. One of the women brought a “girl’s night out” game, a deck of cards with a variety of questions (many about sex). One of the cards had us each rank...
by joebeam | Aug 31, 2009 | Desire, Overcoming the Past, Relationship
Q: My wife and I are having serious difficulties. She told me she wanted a divorce but now she is willing to give us some time to see if we can work things out. However, she doesn’t want me to touch her, much less try to make love to her as we work through this....
by joebeam | Aug 25, 2009 | Desire, How To's, Uncategorized
Q: I am a 46 yr old male going on 11 yrs of marriage. I do not have a good sexual drive. What should I look into to help pick up my desire and drive? I have a great wife who has way more drive then I do. A: Allow me to do something that I rarely do in this blog....