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If Your Spouse Does Not Give You What You Need…
QUESTION: If your spouse does not give you what you need, is it better (or more damaging) to expect your spouse to live up to your need or to lower your standard? For example - my husband and I were having an issue. As we tried to figure out why I react the way I do,...
If This Were Your Last Valentine’s Day Together
Every year I reprint this message from my friend Steve Brumfield. He wrote it after the death of his beloved wife Sue. *** I understand and am well aware that most of us do not want unsolicited advice, but would like to offer up some thoughts about my favorite...
How a Female Can Orgasm During Intercourse Just By Penile Penetration
QUESTON: I am a 22-year-old who feels that she knows less about sex than other people my age. A couple months ago I got married and am learning about sex as we go along. One thing I wonder about is if there is a way that I could reach orgasm during intercourse. I have...
Affair Memories Haunting Me – How Do I Get Past The Guilt I Feel?
QUESTION: When will my past affair stop haunting me? Sometimes the memories just pop up and I feel so dirty. I sometimes find myself caught up in a memory that is like reliving it, then I snap out of it. It is truly horrible. How long does this last? Is there an end?...
Problems from Spouse’s Alcohol Use
QUESTION: My 40-year-old wife seems to think she is going through menopause. For this reason she is just not interested in sex at all. Her memory seems to be short, too, because when I tell her that she has a problem and needs to talk, she is all willing to, but then...
Is Oral Sex a Sin?
QUESTION: I hope this message is not out of line. With your educational background and Christian beliefs, you seem to be the perfect person to ask about sex relations in marriage. My question is this; in marriage is sex restricted to intercourse? Is oral sex a...
Should You Marry (Or Stay Married To) An Abusive Person?
It may be physical, emotional, mental, or spiritual. Whatever the type of abuse, it eventually destroys the abused and, ultimately, the abuser. The problem came to national attention again. ESPN reported, “U.S. women's soccer goalkeeper Hope Solo and former NFL tight...
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