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how do i push reset button on marriage that i don’t want

Q: My husband and I have been married for 15 years. During that time, he got into Internet porn & body piercings. He finally let that go 3 years ago, but then I suspect had an emotional affair with a gal at his work. He vehemently denies this, but she was...

cannot live up to his internet porn fantasies

Overcoming the Past, Relationship

Q: Last night my husband told me that we haven't had foreplay since we have been married. I am stunned by this, but not completely in that I know I can't live up to his Internet porn fantasies. I'm married to an admitted sexual addict. What do I do? A: Being married...

mom caught son masturbating…how does dad deal with this?

Anatomy, Sin? Wrong? Or not?

Q: My wife caught my son masturbating. She is shocked. What do I tell him? What do I tell her? A: It's certainly understandable that a mother would not be happily surprised to walk in on her son and catch him masturbating. Probably shock is the right word for what she...

husband broadcasts her secrets, disrespects her, but still wants sex

Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Sex, Uncategorized

Q: My husband tells me all I am good for is sex. He tells me to that it is my duty as his wife to have sex or to do other sexual things with him whenever he wants it, but he does not respect me. He makes jokes about me and insults me in front of other people and my...

husband stares at pretty women

Arousal, Relationship, Uncategorized

Q: I am a Christian and my husband claimed to be one and attended church when we met. We’ve been married one and it’s been a war, not a marriage. All his life he was attracted to and lusted after pretty women with long hair. Of course, he kept this hidden from me. A...

eBook about fantastic orgasms

How To's, Orgasm

I'm putting together an eBook in which real people tell others their secrets to sexual ecstasy. You can get a free copy of this eBook (when it is ready) if you would like to know what other married couples are doing that lead to great sex! (Details below.) I ask...

oral sex shortly after giving birth

Oral, Anal, Etc., Sin? Wrong? Or not?

Q: I gave birth 3 weeks ago and my husband and I would like keep our sex life going while we're waiting for the 6 week "all clear." Do you have any tips on oral sex or could you point me to a non-sleazy source for this info? A: Instructions for how to do oral sex...