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christmas at your house

Angel, our mentally handicapped daughter, plays Barbara Mandrell's "Christmas At Our House" a kazillion times over the holidays. That's okay. We're all Barbara fans. A few years ago Barbara called me to ask if it would be okay if she sent Angel some of her CDs and an...

husband wants back after affair with 21 yr old

Marriage Trouble, Sex

Q: I found out a few months ago that my husband of 13 years is having an affair with a 21 year old. He told me he was not in love with me and wanted a divorce but lied and lied saying nothing else was going on. He blamed me for the end of our marriage and made me feel...

how can i help my friends have better sex lives?

Arousal, Desire, Orgasm, Relationship

Q: I was at a birthday celebration dinner for a friend recently with a small group of married women. One of the women brought a "girl's night out" game, a deck of cards with a variety of questions (many about sex). One of the cards had us each rank our sex lives. I...

swinging, one couple having sex with or beside another couple

Marriage, Marriage Trouble, Sex

Q: Hello Joe, I have a very important question….because its everywhere, more then I ever imagined. That does not make it right. It's consensual sex with husband & wife with others, commonly know as swingers. If a married couple seems like the fire has been turned...

wife wants no sex because of our problems

Desire, Overcoming the Past, Relationship

Q: My wife and I are having serious difficulties. She told me she wanted a divorce but now she is willing to give us some time to see if we can work things out. However, she doesn't want me to touch her, much less try to make love to her as we work through this. I...

more on angry husbands…

Marriage, Marriage Trouble

Q: In reference to your answer concerning the woman who never knew when her husband was going to get mad, what usually happens to the husband after the wife moves on due to the fact he would not take responsibility for his actions and continued his ways of verbal and...

male that does not have “good sexual drive”

Desire, How To's, Uncategorized

Q: I am a 46 yr old male going on 11 yrs of marriage. I do not have a good sexual drive. What should I look into to help pick up my desire and drive? I have a great wife who has way more drive then I do. A: Allow me to do something that I rarely do in this blog....